New to the Journey-Parent Connect Night 2026

WHO: BC Hands & Voices, Guide by Your Side
WHAT: Are you just starting the journey of parenting a deaf or hard of hearing child? Or maybe you’ve been on this path for a while and are ready to connect with other parents? Perhaps you’re at a new stage and have questions. Join BC Hands & Voices Board Member parents and Guides for an informal, parent-to-parent evening where you can ask questions and share experiences. For parents of deaf/hard of hearing children aged 0-5, grab a cozy cup of tea and join us on Zoom! ASL Interpreters will be available.
2nd language interpreting available if requested by Jan 22
WHEN: Thursday February 12, 7:00pm-8:30pm
WHERE: online via Zoom
REGISTER: Please register to receive Zoom details https://tinyurl.com/5fk25h7w

Download the flyer here: New to Journey 2.12.2026

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Why Talking About Safety Matters for Our DHH Children

By Sarah Francescutti

Talking about safety for our deaf/hard of hearing (dhh) children can feel uncomfortable and even something we may unintentionally avoid. So it’s important that we talk about it more, not less. 

The safety of our children grows through shared awareness and knowledge. The belief is simple and powerful: when we talk openly about safety for our dhh children, discomfort decreases, understanding increases, and we can work together to normalize safe approaches that help reduce negative experiences. 

This article is meant to support that dialogue by offering practical, easy-to-apply ideas that families and educators can use right away to strengthen safety and connection.

On 13 January 2026, in collaboration with the Hands & Voices O.U.R. Children’s Safety Project, Kristin Grender, a renowned educator, adjunct professor in Special Education, and Bright Spots through the Council for Exceptional Children shared “A Teacher’s Role in Keeping Kids Safe,” offering practical, trauma-informed guidance for supporting dhh, deafblind, and disabled students.

Why This Conversation Matters

Children who are dhh, deafblind, and/or have disabilities face a significantly higher risk of maltreatment, bullying, and other adverse childhood experiences (ACEs). This elevated risk is not caused by disability itself, but by communication barriers, social isolation, and limited access to safe disclosure pathways.

One key insight from the session was the impact of loneliness. Some dhh children, particularly those who feel isolated at school,  may tolerate inappropriate or unsafe behavior simply to maintain friendship or connection. When belonging feels fragile, children may prioritize connection over safety, often without the words or confidence to speak up.

Another important factor discussed was the frequency of one‑to‑one interactions dhh children often have with adults (e.g., speech therapy, listening and spoken language sessions, interpreting support, academic support). While these sessions are essential, they can increase vulnerability when they occur in isolated spaces or without clear safeguards. This makes it especially important to:

  • Keep one‑to‑one sessions visible and transparent as possible while ensuring backgound noise and distractions are minimized. (e.g. doors open, windows unobstructed)
  • Clearly explain the purpose and structure of sessions to students
  • Reinforce that students can stop, pause, or ask for another adult at any time
  • Ensure children know who to tell if something feels uncomfortable

Proactive planning helps ensure necessary supports do not unintentionally increase risk.

The Parent’s Voice

While the focus of the session was on educators, an important takeaway was the essential role parents play as advocates. Parents are often the ones who can encourage these conversations to be included intentionally in daycare or school planning.

Parents can support safety by raising topics such as communication access, boundaries, consent, and trusted adults and other school conversations. When safety is named explicitly, it is more likely to be addressed consistently.

Teachers can support this by creating communication-accessible environments, teaching safety and boundaries directly, watching for subtle changes in behavior, and ensuring students know who they can talk to and how.

Building Protective Factors: What This Looks Like in Practice for DHH children

Using a disability- and trauma-informed lens, the session emphasized that protective factors must be intentional and observable, not assumed. For dhh children, safety increases when adults take specific, everyday actions.

Protective factors in practice include:

  • Ensuring consistent communication access: verifying that students can fully understand classroom discussions, instructions, and peer interactions in their preferred language or modality and checking in when access breaks down.
  • Naming trusted adults explicitly: helping students identify specific people at daycare/school (by name and role) they can go to if something feels wrong, and practicing how to approach them.
  • Teaching body autonomy and consent directly: modeling consent in daily interactions (e.g., before touching hearing technology or personal space) and reinforcing that students can say no, even to adults.
  • Reducing isolation and supporting peer connection: intentionally creating opportunities for dhh students to connect with peers, rather than assuming friendships will form naturally.
  • Providing clear ways to disclose concerns: using visual check-ins, private signals, or structured opportunities for one-on-one conversations so students do not have to initiate disclosure on their own.
  • Reinforcing self-advocacy skills: teaching and practicing how to ask for clarification, request support, and speak up when something feels uncomfortable.

Safety is not a one-time lesson — it is a culture built through consistent actions, relationships, and follow-through.

Moving Forward Together

Talking about child safety can feel uncomfortable, but silence carries greater risk. It is important that parents and teachers openly share their concerns regarding individual safety, noise, and communicate about the ideals and reality, and together reach a consensus so they can work confidently together on a child’s behalf. By working together as parents, educators, and communities, we can strengthen safety nets and ensure dhh children are properly protected, connected, and heard.

A recording of this session will be available to watch at the link below once it has been uploaded.

Here is the link for the OUR Place recordings, as of 19 Jan the new Jan 2026 recording isn’t up yet: https://handsandvoices.org/resources/OUR/index.htm#past 

We at Hands & Voices wanted to share the news that parents and professionals can help our growing kids be safe in the world. This Parent Safety Toolkit shares resources to help parents, kids, and the community to understand specific skills, knowledge and practices that can keep our kids safe and independent.

[ Download the OUR Parent Safety Toolkit ]

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Original article in English: https://bchandsandvoices.com/post/keep-em-safe-wear-em-proud/

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Supporting a Hard of Hearing Child Through Kindergarten-中文

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Original article in English: https://bchandsandvoices.com/post/supporting-a-hard-of-hearing-child-through-kindergarten-what-i-learned-as-a-parent/

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Getting the Most Out of the Roger System: Real-World Tips from a Parent

By Zen Tharani, BC H&V Board Member

Our child started using the Roger system in the classroom a few years ago, and while
the benefits were clear, the learning curve was real. This wireless microphone system,
often provided through the school and paired with hearing technology, can open up
access for deaf and hard of hearing (dhh) students, especially in noisy classrooms or
when teachers are moving around.

But it takes more than just turning the device on and clipping it to a lanyard. It takes
collaboration, experimentation, and communication between families, teachers,
audiologists, and the students themselves. If you’re just starting out or looking to
improve how it’s going, here are some tips that have worked for our family and might
work for yours too.

Note: This article is not sponsored or endorsed by Phonak or any manufacturer. It’s based on our lived experience and shared to help other families.

Start the Year with a Team Conversation
If possible, set up a short meeting at the beginning or before the school year with your
child’s teacher, the Teacher of the Deaf and Hard of Hearing (TDHH), and anyone else
on the school support team. Bring the Roger equipment and walk through how it works,
and how to mute and unmute it. Discuss how your child’s equipment or hearing needs are
during different parts of the day.

This isn’t about training anyone to be a tech expert but about getting on the same page
and building confidence for everyone involved. A few minutes of hands-on time can help
avoid weeks of frustration later.

Teach the Teacher about the Mute Button
Teachers often wonder if they must wear the mic all day. The short answer is yes, and
it’s also okay to mute it during private conversations or breaks. In fact, it’s encouraged.
What matters is that the teacher remembers to unmute it when they begin speaking to
the class again. Your child may not always feel comfortable interrupting, so creating a
gentle reminder system like a hand signal or polite verbal cue can be helpful.

Involve Your Child Early
One of the most empowering things we’ve done is help our child understand how the
system works and give them language to advocate for themselves.
Knowing what the different lights on the mic mean, when it’s muted, or how to ask a
teacher or guest speaker to wear it has helped our child feel more in control and less
dependent. We are now at a point that our child is the one showing their teacher(s) how the system works. This has also helped build confidence for navigating real-world
situations, like sports practices or community events.

Plan for Substitutes, Gym, and Group Work
Some of the trickiest moments for dhh students are when routines shift: a substitute
teacher shows up, there’s a group activity, or gym class gets loud.

Explore creating a laminated one-pager that stays with the mic, explaining what it is,
how to use it, and how it helps. Teachers can/should leave notes for substitutes about
the hearing equipment, and another school staff member should be trained by the
TDHH so there is always someone available to make sure it’s being used properly.

One especially tricky situation is when group work and teacher instruction happen at the
same time. For example, when the teacher is giving instructions to one group while
others are working independently, it can be hard for a student using Roger to hear
clearly and stay engaged.

Here’s what worked for us: our child, who uses bilateral cochlear implants, worked with
the audiologist and TDHH to connect only one CI to the Roger system during these
moments. That way, they could still hear the group around them with the other CI. It’s a
small adjustment that gave our child more control and reduced the feeling of being cut
off from peers.

Daily Care Matters
Roger mics need to be charged every night and stored somewhere safe. Since the
school-based system can’t leave campus, we don’t bring it home to charge. Instead, the
teacher and in collaboration with our child has found a consistent spot in the classroom
to keep it charged and ready each day.

Label everything if possible and talk through a simple routine with your child and their
teacher. When there’s a clear plan, it helps everyone take shared responsibility for
keeping the equipment working properly.

Stay in Touch
Check in regularly with your child and with the school team. Ask your child how things
are going not just technically, but socially and emotionally. Are they able to follow
conversations? Do they feel left out during certain parts of the day? What works for
them and what changes would they like to see?

When we notice something isn’t working, we reach out to the teacher first and the
TDHH to ensure they are in the loop also. Everyone’s learning, and a spirit of
collaboration makes a big difference.

Final Thoughts
The Roger system has helped our child access more of what’s being said in the classroom and participate more fully. But it’s not magic, it’s a tool. And like any tool, it works best when people know how to use it and feel supported doing so.

If you’re a parent just starting out, know that it’s okay to ask questions, to tweak things, and to speak up when something’s not working. It’s even better when we encourage
our kids to be advocates and that it’s okay to tweak things and ask questions.

© BC Hands & Voices. Infographic generated using AI and adapted from original content.

If you’ve found tips or solutions that helped your child, we’d love to hear them. The more
we share, the better it gets for all our kids.

Have ideas or questions? Reach out to us at info @ bchandsandvoices.com

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Lights at the Lake 2025- 中文 (Chinese)

REGISTER: https://tinyurl.com/2mvv4fw9

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Lights at the Lake 2025

Gather the whole family and join us for games, hot chocolate, and a walk around the lake. This event is going ahead rain or shine so dress for the weather. ASL Interpreters will be present. This event is jointly hosted with BC Family Hearing Resource Society.

REGISTER HERE: https://tinyurl.com/2mvv4fw9
Download our flyer here: Flyer-Lights at Lafarge 12.2025

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Honouring Deaf Children’s Society of BC’s Legacy and Supporting Families Forward

From the Board of BC Hands & Voices

As parents and members of the Deaf and Hard of Hearing community, we at BC Hands & Voices want to acknowledge the recent closure of the Deaf Children’s Society of BC (DCS BC) and reflect on its impact.

After nearly 50 years of supporting families with children who are Deaf, Hard of Hearing, or DeafBlind, DCS BC has made the difficult decision to dissolve the organization, as confirmed during their Extraordinary General Meeting on October 29, 2025.

We celebrate the remarkable legacy that DCS BC leaves behind and the incredible community of families and professionals who will carry this important work forward. With gratitude for all that has been accomplished, we look ahead with hope and pride in the continued impact of their work.

Honouring the Heart of DCS BC

Since its founding in 1975, DCS BC has stood out for being Deaf-led and for championing a bilingual-bicultural approach supporting early language access through both American Sign Language (ASL) and English. It prioritized Deaf cultural identity and built a space where families could feel seen, heard, and supported, often from the earliest days of identification or discovery.

As a board of parents/caregivers and professionals, many of us have been supported through the ripple effects from the DCS BC community, whether through direct service or by their nurturing of the many talented Deaf professionals working in our communities.

To the staff, Deaf mentors, educators, board members, and volunteers, our sincere thank you. Thank you for visiting our homes. Thank you for your warmth at community events. Thank you for teaching some of our children their first signs. Thank you for showing us what’s possible.

Your advocacy, commitment, and heart changed lives. It will continue to guide how we, as families, support and empower children.

For more information, you can read their official announcement and meeting minutes on the DCS BC website: http://www.deafchildren.bc.ca 

What This Means for Families

While this marks the closing of DCS BC, the support for Deaf, Hard of Hearing, and DeafBlind children in BC continues. 

Families who were receiving support from DCS BC should have already been contacted with guidance on transferring services to the following agencies which will ensure families have the guidance, resources, and therapy needed for their child’s development and success:

These services include speech and language therapy, ASL instruction, language assessments, parent mentoring, and connection to a broader community of families and professionals. If you have questions about your services being transferred, please reach out to the organizations above.   

The following organizations are also available to provide support services, and we encourage parents to visit these websites or contact them directly to learn more about how they may assist your family: 

Moving Forward, Together

We know that change can feel uncertain, but the legacy of DCS BC and the importance of early access to language and Deaf/Hard of Hearing role models will carry on through so many who are dedicated to successful outcomes for deaf/hard of hearing children.

At BC Hands & Voices, we remain committed to creating space for families to connect, to share and to learn about the many opportunities available to support what our children need to thrive both now and in the future.

To everyone who shaped DCS BC: thank you. You’ve made a lasting mark. And to every parent wondering what happens next: we’re here with you.

With gratitude,
The Board of BC Hands & Voices
info @ bchandsandvoices.com

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